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Found myself sitting in the bathroom on the floor just staring into never was, it's just been an emotional past few days and so many thoughts have been going on threw my mind and I simply couldn't stop thinking of reposting this blog. Not much has changed since I post this years ago. So many things I see and hear from people has not changed just different faces..The mis understanding is true love is not a feeling, it is a choice and a decision, we continue to defraud one another. That means " deprive, steal from, withhold from." There are many "thieves" who stand before us daily, unaware that they are stealing from their Love and joy. Why ? Would one pretend that the person that matters most, doesn't matter at all ? WhY? Like Our lives belong to us. News flash, How we treat each other MATTERS. And the reason why, I feel like SO MANY OF US just live our lives in this " Illusion " that we aren't going to die one day.
In fact, it almost baffles me how we can say we want something SO BAD. We want this house. We want to be successful. We want this new car, recognition, marriage and we want this type of income, yet damn near barely ANYONE...LIVES THEIR LIFE LIKE THEY ACTUALLY MEAN IT. We all walk around acting as if we've got freaking FOREVER to live our lives.
We get easily upset with our love ones, but yet we never take the time to figure out why? because we act like we've got forever to live...We bumble through our jobs not really knowing what our purpose is and just getting complacent more and more each day because we act like we've got forever to live...We half ass our way through challenges, we avoid pain and we seek pleasure because we act like we've got forever to live. Well... I want to introduce an idea to you today and ask you to take it very seriously. The real reason I'm wrote this blog... Is because I am not here to show people how to govern their life. In fact, I could care less about that. I want your life to succeed INCREDIBLY and create your DREAMS in life... but showing people how to govern their life is not my purpose in life. I'm here to help you remember just how powerful you are and motivate you to really QUESTION what your specific purpose is here in life.
We've got ONE CHANCE. You do not get to repeat today. It's done. And you will not get to repeat tomorrow. That's done to. So why not live this life with our full BEING. Why not live this life with as much love, as much care, as much passion, and COMPASSION as we possible can ? Why not discover what our purpose is while we are on this planet?
Why not go after OUR GOALS and OUR DREAMS in life like we will NOT get a second chance tomorrow? I ask you... why not? Can any one give me one good "F$#@ING" reason ? The only reason is FEAR, laziness, and plain apathy. We've spent to long complacent, and I'm merely inviting us ALL, myself included, to take action steps Now to STOP it.
Many of you might have already said good bye to some of the people you love the most in the world. Yet we easily forget that 'We won't live forever'. We easily slip back into the frame of mind... where it's 'ok' to half ass our way through things because we got the rest of our lives to figure it out.
I hope you wake up tomorrow and you go out there and you build your faith, marriage, business, and go for your DREAMS, and treat it like its the last chance you get. Because if we live life like that... we're already recieved the "Seven Gifts God Gave to Singles" ahead of everyone else. Be careful when you ask "WHY
Here's a question/scenario posted in one of the Music Executive groups I am a part of.
Question: Kelli Ball
"I was in the company of 2 very notable industry figures a couple of weeks ago who were advising me on what musical direction to take my group Damozel. Their advice, although backed with their reasons of validity, somewhat shocked me. “R&B is dead, and no one will ever look your girls way if you release them as an R&B group” It was suggested that I listen to Rhianna, and Beyonce, and Nikki Minaj and create Pop songs like “S&M” and “Bass Boom”. This is after I played songs that were deemed “fire”, “hot”, and a “hit” but countered with “Radio won’t play it”, “the public doesn’t want to hear that”, “a Label won’t touch them sounding like that”. They even added that “Rap has been redefined as an edgier Pop thanks to artists like Drake”, and “You won’t find a Black artist that will claim being an R&B or Rap artist nowadays, not if they want to blow up, with Radio support and endorsements”. The foundation of Damozel is R&B. They were brought up inspired by the Jodeci’s, 112’s, Dru Hill’s, SWV’s, and every other R&B great that you can imagine. How can an entire genre of music that at one time defined and guided other music genres be obsolete? Have Black artists sold out to stay relevant? I ask you all, seriously, Is R&B dead? And if it is, why am I the last person to find out about it?"
Reply: Tawala Sharp (former Music Director @ 100.3 The Beat, Los Angeles CA)
My name is Tawala Sharp; I was the Music Director at 100.3 The Beat in Los Angeles when I first heard of Damozel. I remember hearing your music and thinking how good it was, your group reminded me of Total. I am reaching out because people post so fast and so often in this group that I often don’t get a chance to read what everybody has posted, luckily I get them in my personal e-mail in-box as well so when I get a chance I go back and read some of the older posts and after reading your post just now I had to respond… First off, Its individuals in the game like that that halts the progression of our music. R&B IS FAR FROM DEAD!!! There are several R&B artists that are enjoying great success right now – JILL SCOTT, KEM, LEDISI, CHARLIE WILSON, MARSHA AMBROSIUS, MUSIQ SOULCHILD, KELLY PRICE, ANTHONY DAVID, JENNIFER HUDSON and R. KELLY just to name a few, and there are several more R&B artists signed to Major and Independent Label deals that are in regular rotation on the radio, selling on ITunes, climbing the chart and performing all across the country…I believe the sound of Damozel fits in right along with everyone I’ve named. Understand this, the music industry is plagued by individuals who couldn’t hear a hit if Mike Tyson landed one right on their ear! The people telling you and your group to listen to and be more like Rhiana, Beyonce and Nikki Minaj are the same people who passed on Drake because at the time EVERYBODY was looking for the next Lil’ Wayne…Then Drake’s music blows up…Next Lil’ Wayne signs him…NOW EVERYBODY WANTS THE NEXT DRAKE!!! This business is full of %$#@# riders so please don’t change for them. Because radio was overrun by Hip-Hop sounding R&B at the time Alicia Keys first single was a Hip-Hop influenced cut called “Girlfriend”…This single did nothing on my station or any other station in the country. It was a downright flop...But, Clive Davis believed in her project and so did the entire staff at J records. After quickly rethinking their strategy and going back to the drawing board they decided to push Alicia Keys doing what she does best – Soulful R&B and came back with the second single – The R&B Super Smash “Fallin”! This was a single that cut through all the noise and launched her into the music stratosphere…True; in the current world of Mainstream Urban Radio it is all about Beyonce and Nikki Minaj right now. That doesn’t mean you go into the studio and crank out music that makes you sound like them...Don’t become the “next” – BE THE FIRST! Be the group that cuts through everything and brings the “Girl Group” back to the forefront. Your group’s music is hot. Trust and Believe in it...
As Rolling Stone did with its recent Queen of Pop ranking (where Lady Gaga came out on top, until readers reinstated Madonna to the throne), the publication has now utilized its own formula to anoint the King of Hip-Hop. And unlike on Forbes' recent Cash Kings tally, where Jay-Z runs the rap empire, it's Eminem who rules the mic. Is Rolling Stone going to need a doctor when fans of the lower-ranked MCs get a load of this list?
Bing: Taylor Swift covers Eminem
As with its Queen of Pop ranking, the longstanding music mag took into consideration several factors, including album sales, Billboard's R&B/Hip-Hop and Rap Songs charts and total YouTube video views. But it only went back to 2009 when looking for numbers to crunch.
"Thanks to his two latest chart-topping albums, 2009's "Relapse" and 2010's "Recovery," the man otherwise known as Slim Shady sold more than two-and-a-half times the number of albums as the second-ranked Lil Wayne during our survey period," says Rolling Stone.
One similarity between the Forbes and Rolling Stone lists: Wigged-out Nicki Minaj is the only female MC represented among the rest of the fellas. All hail the ... queen of the kings?
Below is the Rolling Stone master ranking of the Kings of Hip-Hop. We'd love to hear what you have to say about this list in the comments below. Did the magazine get it right with this list?
1. Eminem
2. Lil Wayne
3. Drake
4. Kanye West
5. Jay-Z
6. Nicki Minaj
7. Rick Ross
8. Ludacris
9. Gucci Mane
10. T.I.
11. Snoop Dogg
12. Diddy
13. Pitbull
14. Fabolous
15. Wiz Khalifa
16. B.O.B.
17. Waka Flocka Flame
18. Lupe Fiasco
19. Kid Cudi
20. Big Boi